From: Marsha on
Samatha Hill -- take out TRASH to reply wrote:
> � Jeem � wrote:
>>
>> Agreed. If there is no rental agreement or lease, she has no
>> obligation to allow the BF to live with her. She is doing this just of
>> her own free will. She had a romantic interest in the man and now she
>> does not. That does not obligate her to allow him to live in her home.
>> If they were renting an apartment or house and both names were on the
>> lease, that would be a different story.
>
> I know from personal experience that this is not true in California.
>
> Marsha (are you the same Marsha I know from SMT?),

Yep - Hi there, "Samantha"

you could call your
> sister's local police department and given them details and ask what her
> options are -- or have her call.

That's an option. She's supposed to see an attorney on Monday, but just
talking to the police would be less expensive. Thanks.

Marsha
From: � Jeem � on

Hey Marsha...can you give us an update on the sister/abusive BF
situation?
From: Marsha on
� Jeem � wrote:
> Hey Marsha...can you give us an update on the sister/abusive BF
> situation?

My sister found out he had consulted a lawyer, the same one they had
both used in the past. He said he couldn't represent her because he had
already advised her BF. Anyway, the bum is moving out, so apparently
the lawyer told him he didn't have any right to stay. He is moving his
things out as we speak. Knowing my sister, she will still hang around
with him. It's no comfort to remind myself that I did everything she
would let me do to help.

Marsha
From: Marsha on
� Jeem � wrote:
> Hey Marsha...can you give us an update on the sister/abusive BF
> situation?

And thanks for asking.

Marsha
From: sr on

"Marsha" <mas(a)xeb.net> wrote in message news:hcfsu9$vma$2(a)news.datemas.de...
>� Jeem � wrote:
>> Hey Marsha...can you give us an update on the sister/abusive BF
>> situation?
>
> And thanks for asking.
>
> Marsha
You have the satisfaction of supporting her. You offered than it was up to
her. You did your part, be satisfied with that.